When I was young, Christmas was a big secret in our fourth
floor walk-up apartment. We’d enjoy the
smell of pine and the glimmer of tinsel for a few days before my father hefted
the tree and all conspicuous fa-la-la-dom down to the dump for my Grandfather’s
Chanukah visit. The dining set, which
had been displaced for our big tree, now looked depressing in its place.
While my mother scoured the carpets for pine needles, latkes
frying on the stovetop, I relished the idea that I was in on a big secret—an
adult one, and I thought we were sensible and practical, making everyone
happy. As I ran my toes over the tree
stand dents, doing my bit to straighten the weft, I felt just as lighthearted
about ‘doing Chanukah’ with my Grandfather as I did a couple of days earlier
about admiring the dangle effect of our candy canes. To me, neither holiday was about
religion. Of course there were the
gifts, but while I can only remember a handful of those (a color-in tablecloth,
a Cabbage Patch doll named Mandy, a cardboard town that grew colorful fuzz care
of a secret potion), the gatherings with friends and family, hopped up on soft
drink and cookies ring clear as a bell in my mind.
I’ve never been sentimental, but I do enjoy me some fun and
there’s something about these year-punctuating events that do the soul good—the
goofing, the burnt turkeys, the photos in silly hats. The first time I could, I had a gathering so
large in my studio apartment for Passover that I had to pile all the furniture
on the bed to make way for a rented table; the brisket my mother talked me
through barely fit in the pot. There was
only one other Jewish friend at that party and I recall a “kosher” dessert that
was way too good to be the real thing (the truth later came out), but the
twenty or so of us had a ball (even punched around an inflated “matzoh ball”),
and it started me on a lifetime of entertaining people I love. How could anyone argue with that?
And yet, people do.
As this holiday season approaches, and there’s so much global unrest, I
can’t help but dwell on the way people so often think of religions as ways to
divide us. While it seems so simple to
me: can’t we all just get along? I know these issues run deep, passionate, and
complex. Even on my small scale, why did
we have to secret away our yuletide spirit from my grandfather all those years
ago? I don’t know the answer, and surely
there certainly isn’t one clear one waiting for us to pluck from the abyss, but
I do know one thing: this December marks
my daughter’s first holiday season, and all I want for her is fun (and a
musical instrument set, I can’t help it; I know I’m in for a future of awesome
headaches but she’ll have a ball). There
are too many other things she’ll have to fret over in her lifetime. Hopefully, in this one instance, she can enjoy
an annual ho ho ho and have herself a (matzoh) ball.
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